This Sunday (Feb 19) we’re having a women’s writers’ retreat in the SG Radio Studio with a love junkie and a woman trapped. Hosts Nicole Powers (SG’s Managing Editor) and Darrah de jour (SG’s resident post-feminist sex and sensuality expert) will be joined in studio by Love Junkie author and Writers on Fire coach Rachel Resnick and her frenemy, actress, comedian, playwright and author Lauren Weedman, a.k.a. Horny Patty (we’re told by Rachel that she had that nickname prior to her “cameo” in HBO’s Hung!). The two met online on a UCLA Book Proposal Writing course, and have been unhealthily competitive ever since. We therefore expect the claws to be out and the sparks to fly, so it should be a fun show.

When Darrah’s not steering the conversation towards the topic of porn or polyamory, and Nicole’s not banging on about Occupy, ACTA or the freakin’ NDAA, we’ll be more or less on topic, yakking about writing. That’s right. Writing. Like, books ‘n’ shit. Stories. Sketches. Plays. Real writing. Surreal writing. Automatic writing. Manual writing. And ghost writing. Since doing this shit is hard. Very hard. Like if you’re JK Rowling rich, fuck it, you should just pay someone else to do it and go get your nails done. Really. But if you’re not, and you’re embarrassed to let people even read your diary – not because it’s too juicy or cringe-worthy, but because it’s too dull – tune in to find out how to make boring shit sound fun, shameless stuff shameful (in a good way), and how to plain just make cool, uncool, and awesomely wrong stuff up.

Tune in to the world’s leading naked radio show for two hours of totally awesome tunes and extreme conversation – and don’t let yo momma listen in!

Listen to SG Radio live Sunday night from 10 PM til Midnight on suicidegirlsradio.indie1031.com

Got questions? Then dial our studio hotline digits this Sunday between 10 PM and midnight PST: 323-900-6012

And follow us on Twitter because we like cyberstalkers.

xoxo

I want to offer mass gratitude to bon vivant blogger, Maliya Bergman of Press For Champagne, for adding me to her blogroll this week!

Suicide Redhead hearts being adored, and sends many hugs & kisses your way!  Also, thanks to SuicideGirls for adding Darrahdejour.com to their “Links We Love.”

If you have a blog or site and wish to illustrate how much you adore us, please add our url to your blogroll and email us, letting us know you did!  We’ll feature you in this space, gladly!

To mutual admiration,

Darrah & the SR gang

I don’t have Twitter, but I do have a mac now (screenshots!)!  Thanks to Nina for being so generous!  (And to SuicideGirls for re-tweeting!)  Read the blog post  and video blog and pay it forward!

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Darrah’s post show thoughts on her interview with Nina Hartley on SuicideGirls Radio on Sunday, Feb. 12th at the Indie 103.1 FM studio in Los Angeles. Likey? Please subscribe to her YouTube channel & blog! —–>

Blog diary entry, here.

Sunday, February 12th SuicideGirls Radio will be celebrating love, sex, and sensuality with iconic adult film star, author, producer, and sex educator Nina Hartley. SG Radio producer extraordinaire Nicole Powers (SG’s Managing Ed) will be joined in studio by SG’s resident post-feminist sex and sensuality expert Darrah de jour. Light a candle, open some bubbly, grab a box of heart shaped chocolates, fuzzy handcuffs and edible undies, and listen in to our intimate in-studio threesome – judging by past shows, a little naughtiness is bound to ensue!

Tune in to the world’s leading naked radio show for two hours of totally awesome tunes and extreme conversation – and don’t let yo momma listen in!

Listen to SG Radio live Sunday night from 10 PM til Midnight PST on Indie103.1 FM. Hit “Listen Live” on the top right of their homepage.

Got questions? Then dial our studio hotline digits this Sunday between 10 PM and midnight PST: 323-900-6012

And cyberstalk us on Facebook and Twitter.

About Nina Hartley

Nina Hartley is the ultimate MILF, a gal who was hot back in the 1970s and is still smokin’ hot today… and just as oversexed. Since then she has gone on to feature in over 650 first-run adult films, and has become one of the most enduring and recognisable performers in the industry. She has won the most AVN awards of any star in history and was the first starlet to crossover to “real acting” with a part in Boogie Nights.

She said that when she got into the adult business, she was blessed with two popular fetish items: big, baby-blue eyes and that round butt which has become her trademark. Her most famous quote is “Sex isn’t something men do to you. It isn’t something men get out of you. Sex is something you dive into with gusto and like it every bit as much as he does.”

Nina has co-produced and created more than 20 Guide to Better Sex videos, is the author of the book, Nina Hartley’s Guide to Total Sex. She has appeared on “Oprah” and other major shows to promote sexual expression and defend sexual rights, and has dedicated her life to ‘Sex Positive’ living.

Update: Rebroadcast Feb. 2nd, at 2am-4am PST. 

Thanks to the magnificent and inspiring Mariel Hemingway and her partner-in-time Bobby Williams for really bringing it last night! They made “The Love Show” very special! Reel and podcast coming soon!

Nicole Powers, Mariel, me, stuntman extraordinaire Bobby Williams, “Rock of Love” alum and SG Radio co-host Lacey Conner

What could be better than sharing a cup of dark roast with one of your heroines? I was lucky enough to garner a morning chat with Lux Alptraum, editor of Fleshbot (Gawker Media’s sister site). This smart tart sifts through naughtiness all day, but manages to retain some higher ground in a low brow industry.

So, what did we muse on?  Well… if you know me, then you’re already in the know that Slate’s 2011 article “Sex is cheap: Why young men have the upper hand in bed, even when they’re failing in life” had me in a state of shock ‘n’ awe. Both panty-bundling and astoundingly on-point, I had to get Lux’s take on the ‘price of sex.’ Other topics at hand: online dating, the best dives in NYC, etiquette of booty calls, Linda Lovelace, and what makes her different from Carrie Bradshaw!

Join the girl talk here: ENTRY GRANTED. And *please* leave your comments under the story!  Means so much to me!

Pssst: Upcoming SuicideGirls Radio Shows include Academy Award nominee Mariel Hemingway (Jan. 29th) and our Valentine’s “V Day” Show with Nina Hartley (Feb. 12th). More info sooooon!

xoxo your girl forever,
Darrah

So!  We’re in the planning stages of our first ever BDSM-themed show!  All of us on the hosting/producing side of SG Radio have been tingling with anticipation at the prospect of having a professional Dominatrix and a professional submissive join us in-studio!  Divulging the nitty-gritty about the job: the interaction, the intimacy, playing with bondage and domination, the seductive taboo, and what draws their clients to the point of worship.

I’m psyched to see who we end up inviting to our li’l spot in L.A. where the flux of cathartic analysis and secret-telling leaves me breathless every other Sunday.

And what about the sub?  If you’ve ever seen the movie Secretary, you know that the art of submitting to your lover or your play partner (or your boss!) can be so exhilarating — and such a guilty pleasure — some hide it behind very stoic exteriors.

Yes, Mistress: Exploring Sexual Rebellion and Power – from rope-play to role-play, forced feminization to tease and withhold, light-pain to more dramatic measures, latex and spanking, this promises to answer your burning questions about a shrouded lifestyle, and further pique your curiosity!

More deets to follow!!  Yes, Mistress: Coming soon to corrupt the consciousness of the listening public.

Tonight, splay your wounded heart; share your rueful longing; your secret clinical queries; your love letters to lovers abroad and your super-sexy fantasies, with tattooed and pierced princesses who want nothing more than to offer advice and TLC!

Agony Aunt and Uncle Hosts are: SuicideGirls’ managing editor Nicole Powers, gender writer and commentator Yashar Ali, Rock of Love alum Lacey Conner, and moi!  SG’s Red, White and Femme post-feminist columnist.

If you salivate over Adam Carolla and wish he and Dr. Drew were still the A-team of LoveLine, don’t fret!  Please – Email or Call in!  We’re waiting for you (with bells and boots on)… gotproblems@suicidegirls.com and (323) 900-6012

Tune in to the world’s leading naked radio show for two hours of totally awesome tunes and extreme conversation – and don’t let yo momma listen in!

Listen to SG Radio live Sundays from 10 PM til Midnight PST by visiting Indie1031.com and clicking ‘Listen Live.’

Hollaback Girl?  Light up our studio hotline: (323) 900-6012

And cyberstalk us on Facebook and Twitter.

Chat with you tonight!! xoxo

Not sure how to begin the New Year?! Well, me and my SuicideGirl-friends have dolled up a list to help you make this one even more rad than the last!

Go here and re-post freely! Spread the suicide-love. XOX